Holidays, Friends, and Family

The following is courtesy of Home Helpers of Lake Norman & Central NC.  
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  It's the holiday season again. For the elderly loved ones in your life (or your neighborhood) the holidays can be a time of many 'bittersweet' memories from seasons long ago. Many of our Elders no longer have the friends and family they shared happy holiday seasons with in the 'good old days'. This time of year can make people feel alone, sad, and hopeless. With a little time, effort, and a willing heart we can all brighten the holiday spirit for the elders in our life.  You really only need 3 things: Your Time, Your Attention, and a Willing Heart.

  Encourage your loved one to talk about their memories of Christmas past.  Most people enjoy reminiscing about the "good old days", and with a little encouragement you are likely to hear stories that will bring tears to your eyes.

  This is a great time to pamper your loved one, making them understand that the times may be different, but they are is still much appreciated and loved.  If you give a gift, it needn't be elaborate.

  The most difficult part of all of this is providing your time and attention. Most of us are already stressed out during the holidays with work, children, other responsibilities, not to mention the extra stresses caused by the current economy. Remember though, giving of yourself can be the greatest gift of all.