Caring for a loved one with Alzheimer's disease can be one of the most difficult challenges a person will ever encounter. The following tips can help smooth the experience:
1. Don't argue with the sufferer -- agree with them even if it seems completely silly, and live in the reality of their moment.2. Don't use logic or reason -- Alzheimer's suffers rarely respond well to logic. Find a diversion, or distraction, and focus on something they like.
3. Don't try to force -- Offer suggestions and rewards.
4. Don't command -- Ask them to help, and compliment their performance when they comply.
5. Don't say, "remember" -- Asking an Alzheimer's patient to "remember" often creates frustration. Simply reminisce about the old days. For instance, talk about how much fun you had on a trip.
6. Don't say, "I told you!" -- Expect to repeat the answer to a question several times. Often you can turn it around and ask them the same question. For instance: "What time does my TV show come on?" Respond with "I'm not sure, what time does it usually come on?"
7. Don't let hurtful comments upset you -- These are going to happen. Just calmly change the subject.
8. Don't be condescending -- Encourage, praise, and reward. The smallest actions should be recognized.
9. Don't be negative -- Be positive and reassure them of your love, your continued support and their safety.
10. Don't focus on the decline -- Live in the moment, savor the time and the life that is still there.
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