Outbursts From Dementia Sufferers

We frequently see families caring for a loved one that is suffering from dementia and struggling with outbursts of anger. This is particularly true of those who are in the more advanced stages. Knowing what triggered the behavior, and how to react in the moment of a verbal outburst can help you cope. Finding the trigger to the outburst is not always easy. Remember that someone with advanced stages of dementia may be unable to recognize or communicate their needs easily. Also, they may have difficulty understanding what behavior is acceptable.

Most often the cause of the outburst will fall into one of three categories:
1. Physical:  Issues such as discomfort, pain, illness, improper medication or difficulty hearing. Consult with a physician and ask if they can help determine which of these may be ruled out.
2. Social:  Unfamiliar surroundings, boredom, loneliness, crowds, or embarrassment from having someone repeatedly pointing out they you have already answered a question.  Though not all of these scenarios can be controlled, if you understand the issue you can address the behavior in a more knowledgeable way.
3. Psychological: Challenges such as memory loss, fear, anxiety, or losing touch with reality.  All of these can lead to misunderstandings, misconceptions and difficulty communicating. Again, knowing the cause can help you take command and alleviate the problem.

What should you do when your loved one has an outburst? First, take a deep breath and remain calm. Raising one's voice or arguing will only elevate the situation.  Always reply in a calm, reassuring voice, maintain eye contact, and do not show any anger or alarm. Acknowledging the sufferer's feelings will tend to diffuse any anger they may be feeling. Finally, redirection to something that the dementia sufferer enjoys is very effective.  Things like music, laundry folding, watering plants, games, or any activity that makes them feel productive and happy will tend to move their disposition towards a more upbeat mood.

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